No Man Is Happier Than You

Rather than being happy on our achievement we are unhappy on others achievement.

In a second we rid ourself from the pleasure of being happy wondering why the other person is so happy.

I want to ask why our happiness is so cheap that it can be easily thrown away so easily on others negative remarks? Why is a matter of luck instead of being the matter of choice? Because our happiness is not totally ours, it is dependent on others.

A poor man is unhappy because the rich man has lots of things to eat; where as the rich man finds the poor one to be much fortunate as he can at least eat anything that he wants. But the rich cannot touch anything because of diabetes. Poor person has no bread to eat but a rich one can not eat anything except bread.

So my dear friend be a master of your own happiness. You alone decide whether to be happy or sad in life. Your happiness can not be so small and trifle that it becomes a matter of others mercy. Be happy for yourself, for your efforts and potentials. Do not let yourself down and leave the efforts on the slightest of the criticism of others. Maintain a positive vibe in you and regularly try to improve your skills. No matter how long will take but every time you will reach a step near to perfection.

Have you ever found people getting entertained in listening the miseries of others? No, nobody wants to waste a time over listening your misfortunes but instead if you have something inspirational to teach them they will welcome you. A happy man is always a source of inspiration for others.

But also check out your definition of being happy. If you find it to be constructive then you are heading on the right path but if you feel happy on the cost of others happiness then at the end you are going to be the most unhappy person. So check it out. Even after reading this article, you do not find anything worthwhile to be happy in your life then practice the below.

Every morning after getting up and every night before going to sleep say firmly to yourself "I am happy no matter what comes in my way” and believe me that in a very short span of time miracles will happen with you. You will find new ways opening at your path and each of them will lead to the doors of happiness.

But make sure not to have double thoughts or any kind of doubts while you make your mind believe that. So my dear friends try it out and share the experiences. Even if you get the slightest smile on your face because of this then I will be the happiest person for you.