25 posts from 2008

26/11, a new way of terrorism, where the torture is not limited to the one time explosions but a continuous 24X7 fight for 60 hours. The attack this time targeted all strata of the society, including the so called elite class.

The terrorists were quite acquainted with the inner areas of the hotels and attacked after a proper planning. Since then the cell phones are getting continuous messages of not going out to the restaurants, malls, and even not to travel till such and such date. Is this the independence that we have? We are not supposed to roam freely in our very own country as the bombs, gun shots are getting cracked every now and then like fire crackers.

It’s enough from the politician’s; we are really not bothered for what excuses they are up to this time. Disaster happened on 9/11 but America proved that we are not the people whom you can mess up with. What about our nation, how many 26/11 our politicians and even we require to realize that it’s high time to take an action. We citizens have lost our faith in the system. Instead of blaming the politicians and security system of our country lets take the charge. It’s only we who can change our fate. Just answer me a simple question that what we are doing for our nation after the mishappening besides forwarding the cautioned sms to our friends and relatives?  Why is it so that only few handful politicians have the power to influence our thinking, our actions and our attitude towards each other? One incident is enough to raise our anger against each other.

No matter what but the fact is that Hindu and Muslim both are equally citizens of India and no body can change it. We have to remain united in tough times, as the lack of this unity is only adding to our sufferings. Some greedy politicians just for the sake of votes and their selfish motives induce the hatred among us.

When Pakistan was been asked about the 26/11 attack then they said “Every time anything happens in India they start blaming it on Pakistan instead of checking out the flaws in their system”. Don’t you think there was a bit reality in the statement? Can our politicians instead of dividing India on the name of Maharastra, Uttaranchal, Jharkahand, really do something useful for the security? British ruled India by applying “Divide and Rule” and the strategy is now being adopted by our own political class.

Wake up friends, how long we are going to be the puppets, waiting for someone to initiate our actions. It’s not that we can do nothing besides being a part of the processions against politicians and condemning them. Shattered homes, blood stains on streets, crumpled bodies, doesn’t tell whether they are of a Hindu, Muslim, Christian or some one else but depicts the story of humanism being ruined ruthlessly by humans. When a two years baby who has recently lost his parents in a bomb blast cries seeking for them, then do we ever think of his religion or caste?

We all are Indians first and will always be. Take a vow that from now onwards we won’t teach our children to become only a good doctor, engineer, teacher but also a good citizen. Take a vow that next time if any politician will give burning speeches against any religion then we will come together and will throw that politician out of the scene. Salute to Major Sandeep Unnikrishnan’s father who had the guts to say no to the visit of the minister who later actually himself exposed his real selfish face with his remark. The consequences were that every Indian citizen no matter of what religion supported Mr. K. Unnikrishnan and ultimately the he apologized. Let’s prove this to the world that we are one and nothing can move us from being united.

Remember terrorism and love both have no religion. We have to fight against our inner Hindu, Muslim, Christian or someone else and have to make it an Indian.  Only then we can fight against terrorism. If we are united nobody would dare to withstand us. Come on let the change take place; free yourself from the useless, orthodox bonds. India is crying for the change. I have decided that from now onwards I am only Manishi, my caste is humanity and my religion is love. Will you help this change to take place?

Published in Kormangala Times, Banglore.

“Enjoy everything from a nagging spouse to the traffic jams” was the line that I heard in the discourses of one of the saint and kept wondering “how”. Is it possible for anyone to enjoy the circumstances he least want to be in? Even the slightest of the criticism, ignorance, misbehavior, crisis and even the slightest shift from our daily routine disturbs us to the extent that instead for thinking the better side of it we actually turns the whole system upside down to revert the situation.

I kept thinking about it until one day when I myself experienced the pleasure in one of the odds. It happened so that my father got transferred to another town. It was almost a mid of the session when I was admitted to the new school. Near about half of the course was over which was required to be coped up and on the top of that half yearly exam dates were been displayed on the notice board. The pressure was too much for me to be handled and it increased when I found nobody in the class was ready to help me except few kind hearted ones. Actually they were not ready to accept a new face in the class at this point of time. The groups were already been made and the like ones had selected their friends. From their expression it seemed that I have to really prove my worth to make a space among them. I was terribly missing my old buddies and literally blamed my father for my loneliness and pressure.

Seeing no other outlet with whole heartedly I concentrated on my studies and started preparing for approaching exams. Soon the class tests were announced as the course of most of the subjects for half yearly exams was over. . My teachers were quite supporting and arranged the best they could for me. Thanks to the few friends who really helped me and cared for me. The rest seemed to be like little devil who did their best to make my life a hell with their mocks and comments. There was no use to enter into the verbal battle with them and so I decided to reply them back in more appropriate way. I pretended to ignore them for that moment and to get rid of their howling I devoted myself totally to the books.

Class test were started and I due to my night and days struggled managed to get almost highest marks in most of the subjects. This increased my confidence and my classmate’s jealousy. They were not able to appetize that I, who came so late in the class, was coming up with flying colors inspite of all their torturous efforts. But this time I was untouched with their terror and misbehavior. Each time I scored highest there came a sense of immense pleasure in shattering their hopes of my downfall. I was enjoying and happy even with their hatred for me, may be it was because I proved myself and made them realize that their unfriendly attitude hardly creates any difference to me and my aim remains unshaken. The trend continued and to everybody’s surprise I scored highest in the class in the half yearly exams. I apologized to my father for blaming him for my odds and thanked him because if he would not have taken the decision to move from the city, I would have never been able to meet up with my abilities and strength. I became the apple of the eye of every teacher and soon whole of the class became my friends but the one who helped me from the day one always held a special place among my friend list.

This is how my worst circumstances made me grow the most. From that day onwards I find a new challenge in anyone’s jealously for me. My enthusiasm and excitement gets doubled and the envy becomes the source of inspiration for me. I fight with the patience and faith that one day the other person’s anger will change into love for me. But I don’t stop myself from growing no matter how big the problem is. So never blame any of the day in your life saying that “today is a bad day for me” as each one has got something to be taught and with lots of the opportunities.

Published in Kormangala Times, Banglore.

My puppy, Tenzy small, sweet, cute, humorous and was shining white in color. He was just few days born when brought to the house. From the day one he became centre of attraction. When left in our lush green garden to play, it seemed as if a big white cotton ball is rolling with three black spots.(two brilliantly shining eyes and a nose) Tenzy amused everyone in the family and everyone loved him as a family member. He was clever enough to make out the position of each member in the family. From his action it seemed that he always respected papa and whole day followed my mom just like a small kid. I was in 5 standard at that time and so he treated me as a friend of his age group and fought with me at times for his share. He shared my bed, my room and my friends as well. In fact he became very popular among the colony. Even he understood that Rampher was the servant in the family and never allowed him to sit on his chair.

When guests used to come to the house, Tenzy welcomed them and like everyone he also used to sit on the sofa chair to be the part of the discussion. Like a keen listener he used to turn his face every time to the speaker as if he understood everything. At times also responded by his boo-woo which made everyone laugh and Tenzy really enjoyed this attention of everyone which he expressed by somewhat dancing in some peculiar way. When scolded by my father sometimes because of being very notorious, Tenzy use to hide between the feet of my mother. He felt it to be the safest place in the whole world.

Once my brother, who was studying in other town gave us a surprise visit. He went in the bedroom where my mom was knitting and lied with his head at the laps of my mom. My mom who got extremely happy kissed and caressed my brother. Tenzy was observing every thing. After few minutes my brother got up to get freshen up and was about to get up to prepare some snacks. But before she could move Tenzy rushed to the bed and lied in the same position on my mother’s lap as my brother did. This made all of laugh and he was not ready to get down until my mom caressed him as well.

Still I remember that once I met with a severe accident and my white dress turned to red as I was bleeding profusely from head. When after stitches I was brought back to the home Tenzy sensed the tension in the family. He saw me lovingly and waved his tail. His face and whole body was radiating immense, pure love which made me realize how worried he was for me. Tenzy left his food for two days until I kept my first step over the floor and also through out the week he sat in my room while I rested there most of the time sleeping.

Later on my mother developed some allery from Tezy’s hairs and doctors asked her to remain away from him. With a very heavy heart we gave our beloved pet to my cousin who lived in the other town. The whole house and colony got grief strucken for weeks and it became very difficuilt for us to be normal again. After a year we visited our cousins. My eyes were eagerly searching for Tenzy. Suddenly we saw him on the terrace watching us like a statue. He was not tied but still got stuck to the place he was. We called him but of no use. Finally my father went to him and picking his front limb made him walk towards us. He literally dragged Tenzy as he was not making any movement from himself. It seemed that he was not able to believe that he would see us again. Slowly Tenzy realized that what he was seeing was real. He was extremely happy as if gone mad. His tone changed like when we get heavy throat out of the pressure before crying profusely. Everybody sensed that Tenzy was crying and asking “Why! Why you left me, what is my fault.” The whole atmosphere became emotional and there was a thin line of tear in everybody’s eye. For the next two days of our stay Tenzy never left us alone and specially my mom. When she went to the bathroom Tenzy stood in front of the gate and barked continuously. Also he hided one of the slipper of my mom and whenever she changed her saree, Tenzy used to sit upon it out of the fear that now we would leave him and go.

We could not leave Tenzy there even though my cousins also loved him as their own family member and cried on the decision that Tenzy would join us. It was hard decision but on that day one creature was most happy and that was Tenzy of course. Such is the love of a pet, selfless, condition less, boundless, priceless, and endless, and that too without any expectations from the other side. Will ever a human race will be able to develop such virtues? If you are feeling lonely and stressed adopt a pet and you will never be depressed again in life. What all of us ultimately want in life? Pure, selfless love. After that till the time Tenzy was with us, he render his love and services with great devotion and sense of duty. May God rest his soul.    

Published in Koramangala Times, Banglore.

After few months of my marriage my parents suddenly grew older. The reason could not be understood. It is obvious that old age in itself is biggest illness but in case of my parents age cannot be blamed totally. Mom developed a heart problem and my father suffered from slight effect on memory. Me, my brother and sisters being quite far from them, arranged the best doctors in the city for parents, but were not able to come to them immediately. The treatment got started but there was no remarkable improvement. Then I decided to visit my parents’ in order to check what the matter was exactly. To my surprise health of my parents got noticeably deteriorated. They lost weight, health and all enthusiasm.

I decide to stay for some time to look after them. Although I was able to extend my stay for 15 days but within a week my parents got much active and healthy than I and doctor expected. I was quite satisfied and happy while leaving home as my parents recovered eighty five percent and were quite confident. This incident made me realize that children are the actual source of energy for parents.

My parents who were suffering due to bad health from months magically overcame it when I visited them in just a fortnight. What does this mean? They actually needed that emotional confidence and not long medical prescriptions in order to be healthy again. Since then I made a point to call my parents and in-laws at least once in a day, and if not long then at least for two minutes. This unseen connection between me and my parents give them a sense of nearness, love, affection and care from miles away and also a reason to take a very good care of them self. 

I narrated my experience because like my parents there are many old aged couples who are leading their life alone, miles away from their children since children are working in some other country or town. When asked to settle down with children they refuse, not because their kids do not love them or incapable to take care of them but because they become so much acquainted with their surroundings that there develops a comfort zone for them. They have got a circle in the native place, everybody knows them and things get much easily approachable. Considering their comfort it doesn’t seems to be a wise decision to move the parents from their native place to an unknown place, especially when both partners are working. But now as we can see that in the cities the risk for old couples is increasing day by day. News papers tells us the story that how murders of old people is being followed with thefts. It really becomes dilemma to leave parents alone even.

The best that we can do is to be in touch with them as much as possible as our phone calls and visits act as lifeline and fills them with the magical feeling called self confidence. They get energized with zeal and life. Simultaneously we have to be prepared for day when the charge of being parents of your parents has to be taken. It is when parents won’t be able to take the things on their own anymore. On that day when they will be kids once again we have be more responsible and as kids are never left alone so with love and care from nuclear families we have to shift to joint family. The only thing required is tolerance, love and patience.

Whenever you feel lack of these virtues while dealing with your old parents who grow stubborn with age then just imagine that how your parents tolerated you with the same virtues when after drenching the whole bed at the mid night you cried for the whole night at the top of your pitch and your parents passed another sleepless night in comforting you singing lullabies. How without giving a second thought your father cancelled his urgent meeting when your mother told that you have got to be taken to the doctor for vaccination. How your mom delayed to buy a pair of footwear to watch you playing video game on your birthday. How your parents sacrificed all their luxuries in order to secure your future funds. How your mother announced that she never liked pancakes seeing three pieces for four people. Examples are uncountable.

With every passing moment the time that you can be with your parents is reducing. One day as per the law of the world they will be gone for ever. So give them as much happiness as you can. Remember your parents are your real treasure, once lost never be back and nothing else can ever replace their place so keep them safely.    

Published in Koramangala Times, Banglore.

Do you know that on an average a person runs about sixty thousand thoughts through his mind per day? Amazing isn’t it, but more amazing is that 95% of the thoughts gets repeated everyday. So just keep a check upon your thoughts and imagination because they are the key to unlock your dreams. I will tell you how.

Do you know how the concept of Ad films works? Companies know the impact of repeated thoughts and roll up the Ad film several times a day. Advertisement impacts our subconscious mind and creates a place somewhere in our brain and motivates us to buy things which we cannot afford sometimes. Although we may not be in the need to buy a car and do not have enough money to buy it even then we start discussing performance of the car among friends and finally bring it home on monthly installments of the car loan.  

Remember the day when your dad asked you to get him salt? You went to the kitchen and could not find it even though your mom instructed you constantly where it is. Then finally your mom came and picked it up right in front of your eyes. Have you thought that why you were not able to get it inspite that it was in front of your eyes? It’s because your brain gave you the order that you don’t know where the salt is. So even though you reached to the exact place, you couldn’t see it.

See what your brain can do. It has the power to accomplish extraordinary things. We all have the same 24 hours of the day. Some of us make them best some worst. It all depends upon our thinking pattern and attitude in life. I know you must have read all this in many books and have heard several times from elders. But even then have you followed it? We need to get constant reminders of our hidden powers. So from this very moment onwards take a control over your mind. Cut all the negative thoughts and warn them strictly not to interrupt you again. Start thinking positive, be constructive and miracles will happen.

“Dream what you desire and it will be a reality.”

(Published in Koramangla Times)

Since last few days I was not able to compose anything. It was not that I was too busy with other things but simply because I couldn't find interest in anything. Tried a lot to find the reason but then finally stopped bothering about it. As I was not able to write something interesting so got indulged in reading as it is also one of my favorite hobbies. I came across various articles and came to know that there exists a practical reason for my lack of interest. I read several medical articles which explained the "Feeling Blue Syndrome."

I thought it might be interesting to share them with you as it is something which struck to all of us when we do not understand the reason of our gloominess. Whenever you find yourself caught up with such sadness do not leave your livelihood. It is one thing that makes you so different from others. Just keep yourself going on with some of the tips that I have practically applied. 

1) Dress up yourself.

Dressing up yourself can really brighten up your day. Put up some of the dresses you always to see yourself in and do take of the accessories. This can really help you grab the attention.

2) Go out for shopping.

Shopping is one of the all time favorite time pass of the people. See if it can work for you as well. And if you do not want to spend money then go for the window shopping as it is also one of the perfect forms of lighten up the mood.

3) Change up your Style.

You can try for a new hairstyle or get a different shade of the nail paint or lipstick or anything different than your usual choices. This will help you to regain your confidence.

4) Change in the attitude.

If you are the most talkative one then try to practice a different mode of expression. It can by remaining calm over the things or by talking to the point. And if you are the one who talks less then give a try to express more that the usual ones. It will help you grab the attention of the people.

5) Watch a Funny Movie.

This is one the highly recommended tip. But make sure to watch something light and funny.

6) Change the setup of your Homeor Working Place.

If possible then change the setting of your sofa and other furniture. Put up some flowers as they makes up the environment more colorful. The change in the interiors can really help you in building up the interest.

7) Exercise.

The scientific way to get out of the blue is to exercise. Put up some music and hit the jogger's park.

8) Cook up the Delicacies.

Remember the dish you saw in one of the cooking shows.........it’s the time to give try to it. So go ahead and prepare the food of your choice.

9) Set up your Goals.

Give challenge to yourself that you will finish up with the book, or you will complete rearrange the clothes shelf today. This will help your mind getting engaged with a creative thought.

10) Get Connected.

Whenever gloomy and sad, call up your best buddies. Avoid serious discussions and plan out for the gathering and party.

11) Get a pet for yourself.

Bring home a sweet friend of yours, it can be a puppy, kitten or what ever you feel like. The unconditional love that our pets give us helps us to fight against depression.

Remember your life has got limited number of days, so make each day worthwhile and memorable. Take a very good care of yourself as you are precious to somebody.    

Hi Friends, today I am going to share a secret with you all. It’s a secret which has the power to change the outlook of your life, which can enhance your capabilities and can transform you into one of the most wonderful person of the world to talk with. It’s very simple and doesn’t require any extraordinary efforts or inputs.

All of you have got some dreams in your life for which you toil hard. You must have heard “Maintain your motivation towards your dreams.” But the question is how, how to let that motivation keep flowing in you as it’s just like sunshine, sometime shines brightly filling us with hopes and some times fades out leaving us in despair.

So friends the good news is that I have found the secret of maintaining the motivation.

GIVE MORAL TO THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU TO GAIN IT FOR YOURSELF.

Yes this is what the secret is all about. The best way to help you is to help others. See all around you, your cousins, friends, neighbors, and the targets are unlimited. Find some time for them, talk to them and try to light up the lamp in them. Have encouraging discussions with them and change their mind set for success. Make them believe that there is something extraordinary in them all they need is to recognize it. You will be surprised to know how your and others life will get changed. Believe me the results will be amazing. You can’t even think that how you get transformed somebody else, who is simply superb. And the best part is that the people who are in your contact also gets charged up with the same energy.

But to start with giving motivation to other you have to evolve yourself. Why I am using the word evolve instead of develop.

Development is something which is done purposely and has an intention behind it. And as the purpose is achieved the development stops then and their.  But the evolution is a continuous process, natural and irreversible and the most important that everything which gets evolved is the most preferred one.

So evolve yourself into a better human being. You can’t pretend to be good. You have to really feel that goodness from inside and it has to your basic nature. Whenever you find yourself furious then just give a thought that you are setting an example for someone else then automatically the very next moment you will cool down. This will change your thinking and in your day to day life you will find changes in your dealings. You will become more patient and calm. So ultimately by motivating others you will find motivated yourself and also become a better human being.

Someone also motivated me and helped me in shaping my vision in life. I found myself to be a completely changed person. I am more confident and clear with my aim. And the best part is I am becoming a better person day by day. Now it’s my turn to pass the same energy to people around me and that’s what I am doing. I am putting my efforts to make my articles more encouraging so that my readers get charged up as well.

Hello Everybody!!! Hope you all are doing great in life. Right now its 6 o’clock in the evening. And once again I am with my best friends, my diary and pen in the working corner of my house.

I would like to share a past day incident with you guys. Actually I was looking for a job in financial domain and after facing many interviews I got selected in one of the MNC. I was very happy but then suddenly a thought started bothering me day and night. Which is “I am ready to work so hard for someone else on their terms and conditions, then why not to work for myself on my own terms.” Companies plan everything, make schedule, routines and decide the jobs and fix people in that frame but if we can make a frame for ourselves and can schedule things for us and of course can follow them strictly then even we can also rule out the world.

That night there was no sleep in my eyes I kept on exploring myself. I tried to realize my capabilities and abilities. I thought why not to take writing seriously who knows fate has got something special for me in its unturned pages. And even if this couldn’t fetch up the money for me even then the immense sense of satisfaction and pleasure which I get from writing is more than any other pleasure. So next morning I decided to move ahead on the path which I will frame out and thinking this I rejected the job. Though it was a difficult decision for me but then some thing inside me motivated me.

One of my biggest sources of inspiration is my brother who after completing his B. Tech rejected all the offers from big brands. He preferred to build up the empire of his own instead of toiling hard to make someone else empire strong. After struggling for seven years he has established his own company and along with his dreams also making others dreams come true.

For all this we have to be self motivated person, we cannot entertain even a single negative thought. But in the life of each one of us there comes a time when we get demoralized. All of us dreams but only few are able to live them. Why? Because only when our dreams are about to be realized we quit and start blaming others. It is said that when you are not able to see anything further in path then it’s a sign that you are very near to your destination. So close that it’s not even visible to you.

We start a venture, pour all our effort, take so much pain, put everything at stake and then one day when things do not turn to our favor get disappointed, loose hopes and dump everything. Why just because of the two years of struggle we forget our twenty years which we spent struggling to learn things so that one day we can also prove our self. Do not give path to the failure so easily, fight till the last and then if you will fail also there will be satisfaction on your face with that failure also. Do not afraid in life of anything when you are not wrong. Make yourself so strong that even your opponent gets motivated from you.

While reading the book “The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari”, I came across the following lines which now are one of my favorites.

“When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project, all of your thoughts breaks their bonds: your mind transcends limitations, your consciousness expands in every direction and you find yourself in a new, great and wonderful world. Dormant forces, faculties and talents become alive and you discover yourself to be a greater person than you ever dreamed yourself to be.”

So friends I am ready to fight till the end to bring success to my way, are you ready for your fight?   

Can you narrate me the movie that you saw a year back? Finding it difficult?? Some of you may not be able to recall the name of it even. May be your brain cells are occupied are filled up with the recent incidents and as there are limited cells to memorize so the information gets overlapped. This is the biggest myth about the capability of our brain.

Brain can store information beyond our imagination. All we need to do is to keep it active through various exercises.

There are two parts of the brain the right brain and the left brain. Each side is similar in shapes but have different functions to be performed.

Left brain which is also known as digital Brain controls;

1)     Logical Thinking

2)     Calculation

3)     Reading

4)     Writing

Right brain which is also known as Analog Brain controls;

1)     Creativity

2)     Artistic sense

3)     Dimensional sense

Unlike any other muscle brain muscles also need to be exercised in order to keep them active and healthy. Here are the few tricks using which we can keep our brain muscles functioning well. Also these tricks break our usual thinking pattern and help us thinking differently. Try them out and they will definitely help you out.

1. Take a book and put it upside down, now try to read out the sentence.

This exercise helps your brain muscles to increase their grasping power.

2. Start counting from 100 to 1

Whenever you have enough time to sit leisurely or while driving, going to a morning walk or in your free hours start counting from 100 to 1. This exercise drills the brain and causes it to break a regular patter to react towards the things. 

3. Read an entirely new topic

If you usually read fictions then read horror. If you are a student of economics then read history. If you have mastery over mathematics then try reading out some science related books. This will exercise your brain and you will also excel over other things. You will be having information of other topics like as well.

4. Play Games

Spend few minutes over games like Sudoku, Crossword and other electronic games. Games really help out our brain a lot. But remember when you find that you can solve a sudoku puzzle even while sleeping then its time to take more difficult challenges. 

5. Make use of your opposite hand.

If you are a right hander then occasionally start doing things from left hand like writing, combing, opening doors, operating keypad etc. this will help your mind to rethink upon daily tasks and explore the new pathways.
 
6. Memorizing the phone numbers

We all maintain a long phone call list in our mobiles, organizers etc. But try remembering some important phone numbers. This practice greatly helps in improving the memory and also helps you to immediately retrieve a number to make urgent call.
 
7. Break the Routine

The best way to keep your brain young give challenges to it. Like change the route of your office. Eat from your left hand etc. Do things with different sequence number or pattern, which your brain is habituated to do in a particular pattern. This will keep your brain ready for the challenges. 

8. Develop new skills

Learning new skills can help out you to shake up the dormant parts of the brain. Like learning a musical instrument, cooking, cycling, new language etc. activates the brain cell and also makes you a multitalented personality.

9. Narrate your experiences.

Recall your first adventurous trip and write down your experience. Recall the variety of food that you have eaten till now and list them down. Recall the colors of the dresses you are having in your wardrobe. These small exercises will help your brain to memorize things easily.

10. Develop a hobby

Try to explore yourself and see what activity attracts you the most. Maintain your hobby and keep experimenting with it. This will help you develop your personality and build up the confidence. Also your brain will break its imagination limits.

11.  Make Healthy Eating

In order to keep your brain healthy we must pay attention to our eating habits. Our diet should include fish oils, nuts such as walnuts, seeds such as flax seed and olive oil. These are considered to be the healthy fats. Avoid eating unsaturated fat as much as you can and if possible then eliminate it from your diet. Even saturated fats are also recommended to be taken in very less amount.

So the next time you find it difficult to recall something, give a try to the above mentioned tricks. They really help us a lot without consuming much of our time.

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My husband is working for 5 days a week and after toiling so hard throughout the week then comes a weekend. I desperately wait for the weekend so that we can be together for all 24*2. But this weekend he had some interviews to be taken, because of which he was supposed to be there in the office on Saturday.. He told me about his schedule on Friday itself as he knows it very well that for me weekends are like to be in heaven. He explained me the urgency of the work and asked to make up my mind.

I supported him and said that if work demands then he must go to the office and I will be comfortable. But as the Saturday arrived and my husband start getting ready for the office I felt terrible. Although I didn’t say a word and managed to maintain a smile on my face while completing my morning works. My hubby after having his breakfast left for the office and told me he will be late.

After he went to the office I with all my enthusiasm lost lied on the bed just waiting for the time to flee like air. After half an hour I got a call from my husband. It was the usual as after reaching the office he always calls up to inform. I picked up my cell and said “so you reached” but without let me talk further he said “I am missing you and although you pretended a lot today in the morning but I know how much are you dieing to be with me.”

That one sentence made up my day. I felt the energy back. I came to know what makes me go on. Yes it is the unconditional, unspoken love that we share with each other. To my surprise instead of coming late he turned up early in the evening and told that he got all his appointments arranged in the first half. The day was not ended here. He took me out for the dinner that evening.

Love has its own language which doesn’t need any words to describe. It comes to us when we expect it least. There is an attraction between the new couples which gets reduced as the time passes. But actually if you can realize then the attraction doesn’t get reduced. It gets converted into a strong bond and understanding.

I have got a friend in my husband who gives me sufficient space to grow and take up my own decisions, but at the very same time he holds me back when I am just about to fall.

Whenever I do something wrong and everyone else is about to raise a finger upon me, then like a caring mother he envelopes me and make everyone realize that she is not wrong but then chides at me when alone. Whenever I get nervous and confused then like a guiding father patiently listens to me and shows me a path. Whenever I do something unexpected then like a proud brother and sister he pats me and encourages me by saying “let’s see what you will do next time.”

He finds it irritating to say “I LOVE YOU” every morning or before sleeping but thanks God every morning for making our match and prays him to protect me from all mishappenings. He hates me to blame him for not remembering the dates but takes care of the smallest amenities in the house so that my every day goes smoothly. He do not like to walk on the road holding my hand publically but after the party at home gets over always caresses my feet thinking that I have worked hard throughout the day to make the party arrangements perfect. He at times forgets to praise the food I cook but never let me eat alone without him.

All this and lot more make him to be a special and precious person in my Life.

LOVE SHOULD BE A HARDY TREE, ABLE TO WITHSTAND WINTER STORMS.

CHERISH IT LIKE A SPRINGTIME FLOWER, AND IT WILL LAST FOR ETERNITY.

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