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Can you narrate me the movie that you saw a year back? Finding it difficult?? Some of you may not be able to recall the name of it even. May be your brain cells are occupied are filled up with the recent incidents and as there are limited cells to memorize so the information gets overlapped. This is the biggest myth about the capability of our brain.

Brain can store information beyond our imagination. All we need to do is to keep it active through various exercises.

There are two parts of the brain the right brain and the left brain. Each side is similar in shapes but have different functions to be performed.

 

Left brain which is also known as digital Brain controls;

 

1)     Logical Thinking

2)     Calculation

3)     Reading

4)     Writing

Right brain which is also known as Analog Brain controls;

 

1)     Creativity

2)     Artistic sense

3)     Dimensional sense

 

Unlike any other muscle brain muscles also need to be exercised in order to keep them active and healthy. Here are the few tricks using which we can keep our brain muscles functioning well. Also these tricks break our usual thinking pattern and help us thinking differently. Try them out and they will definitely help you out.

 

1. Take a book and put it upside down, now try to read out the sentence.

This exercise helps your brain muscles to increase their grasping power.

2. Start counting from 100 to 1

Whenever you have enough time to sit leisurely or while driving, going to a morning walk or in your free hours start counting from 100 to 1. This exercise drills the brain and causes it to break a regular patter to react towards the things. 

3. Read an entirely new topic

If you usually read fictions then read horror. If you are a student of economics then read history. If you have mastery over mathematics then try reading out some science related books. This will exercise your brain and you will also excel over other things. You will be having information of other topics like as well.

4. Play Games

Spend few minutes over games like Sudoku, Crossword and other electronic games. Games really help out our brain a lot. But remember when you find that you can solve a sudoku puzzle even while sleeping then its time to take more difficult challenges. 

5. Make use of your opposite hand.

If you are a right hander then occasionally start doing things from left hand like writing, combing, opening doors, operating keypad etc. this will help your mind to rethink upon daily tasks and explore the new pathways.
 
6. Memorizing the phone numbers

We all maintain a long phone call list in our mobiles, organizers etc. But try remembering some important phone numbers. This practice greatly helps in improving the memory and also helps you to immediately retrieve a number to make urgent call.
 
7. Break the Routine

The best way to keep your brain young give challenges to it. Like change the route of your office. Eat from your left hand etc. Do things with different sequence number or pattern, which your brain is habituated to do in a particular pattern. This will keep your brain ready for the challenges. 

8. Develop new skills

Learning new skills can help out you to shake up the dormant parts of the brain. Like learning a musical instrument, cooking, cycling, new language etc. activates the brain cell and also makes you a multitalented personality.

9. Narrate your experiences.

Recall your first adventurous trip and write down your experience. Recall the variety of food that you have eaten till now and list them down. Recall the colors of the dresses you are having in your wardrobe. These small exercises will help your brain to memorize things easily.

10. Develop a hobby

Try to explore yourself and see what activity attracts you the most. Maintain your hobby and keep experimenting with it. This will help you develop your personality and build up the confidence. Also your brain will break its imagination limits.

11.  Make Healthy Eating

In order to keep your brain healthy we must pay attention to our eating habits. Our diet should include fish oils, nuts such as walnuts, seeds such as flax seed and olive oil. These are considered to be the healthy fats. Avoid eating unsaturated fat as much as you can and if possible then eliminate it from your diet. Even saturated fats are also recommended to be taken in very less amount.

So the next time you find it difficult to recall something, give a try to the above mentioned tricks. They really help us a lot without consuming much of our time.

 

My husband is working for 5 days a week and after toiling so hard throughout the week then comes a weekend. I desperately wait for the weekend so that we can be together for all 24*2. But this weekend he had some interviews to be taken, because of which he was supposed to be there in the office on Saturday.. He told me about his schedule on Friday itself as he knows it very well that for me weekends are like to be in heaven. He explained me the urgency of the work and asked to make up my mind.

 

I supported him and said that if work demands then he must go to the office and I will be comfortable. But as the Saturday arrived and my husband start getting ready for the office I felt terrible. Although I didn’t say a word and managed to maintain a smile on my face while completing my morning works. My hubby after having his breakfast left for the office and told me he will be late.

 

After he went to the office I with all my enthusiasm lost lied on the bed just waiting for the time to flee like air. After half an hour I got a call from my husband. It was the usual as after reaching the office he always calls up to inform. I picked up my cell and said “so you reached” but without let me talk further he said “I am missing you and although you pretended a lot today in the morning but I know how much are you dieing to be with me.”

 

That one sentence made up my day. I felt the energy back. I came to know what makes me go on. Yes it is the unconditional, unspoken love that we share with each other. To my surprise instead of coming late he turned up early in the evening and told that he got all his appointments arranged in the first half. The day was not ended here. He took me out for the dinner that evening.

 

Love has its own language which doesn’t need any words to describe. It comes to us when we expect it least. There is an attraction between the new couples which gets reduced as the time passes. But actually if you can realize then the attraction doesn’t get reduced. It gets converted into a strong bond and understanding.

 

I have got a friend in my husband who gives me sufficient space to grow and take up my own decisions, but at the very same time he holds me back when I am just about to fall.

Whenever I do something wrong and everyone else is about to raise a finger upon me, then like a caring mother he envelopes me and make everyone realize that she is not wrong but then chides at me when alone. Whenever I get nervous and confused then like a guiding father patiently listens to me and shows me a path. Whenever I do something unexpected then like a proud brother and sister he pats me and encourages me by saying “let’s see what you will do next time.”

 

He finds it irritating to say “I LOVE YOU” every morning or before sleeping but thanks God every morning for making our match and prays him to protect me from all mishappenings. He hates me to blame him for not remembering the dates but takes care of the smallest amenities in the house so that my every day goes smoothly. He do not like to walk on the road holding my hand publically but after the party at home gets over always caresses my feet thinking that I have worked hard throughout the day to make the party arrangements perfect. He at times forgets to praise the food I cook but never let me eat alone without him.

 

All this and lot more make him to be a special and precious person in my Life.

 

LOVE SHOULD BE A HARDY TREE, ABLE TO WITHSTAND WINTER STORMS.

CHERISH IT LIKE A SPRINGTIME FLOWER, AND IT WILL LAST FOR ETERNITY.

 

This article has been published at Simplymarry.com

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Today I am going to tell you a story. It’s about a young boy who was charged with the crime for which he was been given life time imprisonment. Poor boy was not at all involved in the crime but couldn’t prove his innocence to the world. All his dreams were shattered completely. He was terribly disappointed with the justice of his country. In the jail where other criminals passed their days by talking, playing, and making themselves busy with the different activities, he remained calm, quite. Everyone thought that he has got a deep impact of the judge’s decision and sympathized with him. Everyone came up with lots of explanations like no body can change the fate; you cannot win against your luck and all. But the boy seemed to be lost in his own world, dreaming about something as if he has al ready accepted his life this way and do not want to fight against the situation.

 

 

Few years passed away. The boy took interest in the activities and also made friends but his choice was very selective. One day in the night suddenly the sirens filled up the dead air of the Prison. The lights were flashing. Everyone woke up and was wondering “What Happened?” The boy some how managed to escape from the prison. In the darkness of the night he was been given a lift by a truck who crossed the border and so did the boy. Now he was in a country where no one knew him.

 

The boy was educated and managed to find a job for himself. Slowly he accumulated a good amount of money and lived comfortably; He was in his 30’s at that time. One day while walking along the country side he found the surroundings to be very familiar. He felt as if he has been to this place earlier as well. There was a clean wide road with lush green trees all around, covered with spring flowers. Everything seemed to be so known and familiar. He regularly visited the place and spend his leisure hours there by the side of the tress.

 

One day a lady in her late twenties, who was also the regular visitor of the place approached the person and soon they became friends. They enjoyed each others company a lot and finally decided to get married. One day when they were walking along the side ways of the path holding each others hand, the man realized that he has seen all this before as well. Then he realized that when he was in prison and when everyone tried to console him this was the one constant thought that he is cattered always. He always imagined himself with his beloved roaming along the side ways of the spring trees and so this has all happened. He made his conscious believe that he is going to have better life and constantly imagined him to be at his dream place. He never entertained people with negative attitude and that’s why he made selected friends in the prison. He talked less so that the thought doesn’t get out of his mouth till it gets materialized.

 

So my dear friends the most crucial point at which one should be hopeful for his better life is when he has lost it all. When every thing name, fame, relations, love, and money gets lost even then if you can maintain a balance and can train your mind for a better life then no body in this whole world not even God can challenge you.      

When people stopped me, I leaned courage.

When people encouraged me, I learned to love.

When people pulled me, I learned to resist.

When people appreciated me, I learned thankfulness.

 

 

When people criticized me, I learned success.

When people praised me, I learned humbleness.

When people tried to overpower me, I learned determination.

When people helped me, I learned friendship.

 

 

When people argued me, I learned silence.

When people discussed with me, I learned sense.

When people misbehaved with me, I learned patience.

When people observed me, I learned updating.

 

 

When people doubted me, I learned faith.

When people believed me, I learned responsibility.

When people left me, I learned walking alone.

When people followed me, I learned leadership.

 

 

When people pretended with me, I learned observance.

When people loved me, I learned friendship.

When people back-steeped at me, I learned competition.

When people supported me, I learned co-operation.

 

 

When people laughed at me, I learned ignorance.

When people recognized me, I learned balance.

When people went against me, I learned never dieing attitude.

When people favored me, I learned obligedness.

Remember how excited you were while discussing the execution plans of your new venture with your friend. Everything was crystal clear in your mind. What will be the plan, how you are going to manage with other things. How you will schedule your time for different slots and etc etc etc.

 

But what happened now? Where is that level of excitement? What about those planning? It seems as if all your plans have become just a matter of paper work. Everything has been cooled down.

 

DO NOT WORRY; THIS IS NATURAL AND PERFECTLY NORMAL.

 

This happens with all of us. After reading the motivational books, articles and after attending similar seminars we start dreaming big. But have you ever noticed that even after dreaming big and thinking positive why most of us could not match up with the success phase. Because the rhythm of our footsteps while walking on the path of success gets interrupted and becomes slow. As the time passes we get more and more engaged with our day to day schedules and in order to cope up with it, somewhere we loose the track.

 

Actually all these things are quite normal and obvious. I will tell you why.

We are the people whose thinking pattern is different from those who live to meet up the expectations of their scheduled life. Instead we expect a lot more from life. It’s not just a matter of making money but something extraordinary which can bring revolutions. And those who are still reading this belong to this community. Now when we have that extraordinary skills in us and start applying them then our scheduled things starts digging holes for us so that after falling in them our talents get absorbed in the same rat race.

 

But my dear friends do not let this happen with you. You are the blessed one, with special quality of thinking beyond the boundaries. We together have to train your mind to maintain the never dieing attitude. We have to maintain that excitement so that our dreams can taste the reality.

 

Now comes the practical part of the story. I know you must be thinking “Oh! The same old story”.

 

WAIT AS THERE IS SOMETHING MORE INTERESTING WAITING FOR YOU.

 

Let me compose this with my own example.

 

Today in the morning I suddenly got jolted with the thought of how its been since I wrote something creative which can really help my readers in making their life better. You know the responsibility gets doubled when you are a public writer and writes for the society you live in. At the very moment with my best friends (my notebook and a pen) I sat at the working corner of my house so that I can concentrate to write an article. But to my surprise I was not able to find anything interesting. You know what happened I actually went out of the track and now my mind was not responding as it used to do earlier. The excitement was missing for so many days. While starring at the blank page I thought how to charge up myself and suddenly I looked saw my nails. Immediately I delayed everything for few minutes. I cleaned up my hands, filed my nails and applied a nail paint that I brought last week.

 

My beautiful hands inspired me to write something very beautiful and the thoughts once again started rolling in my mind just waiting to be written down. So here I am with my new blog.

 

This is how I energized myself. There are lot more ways which can prove to be helpful to you. Next time you feel out of the track, give them a try as they really works for you.

 

CAN YOU TELL ME HOW YOU KEEP THE FIRE BURNING IN YOU.

 

WAITING FOR YOUR RESPONSE…………..................KEEP EXPLORING AND TAKE A VERY GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF.

 

ENJOY…………

A group of 4 to 8 year-old Children were asked, "What does love mean?" The
answers they gave were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined.

--"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it
                     everyday" (Tina - age 7)

 --"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else
          kissing me to sleep at night." (Clare - Age 5)

--"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You
   know that your name is safe in their mouth." (Billy - age 4)

--"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint
her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time,
even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love." (Rebecca - age 8 )

--"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French
fries without making them give you any of theirs." (Chrissy - age 6 )

--"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired." (Terri - age 4 )

--"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip
before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK." (Danny - age 7)

--"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still
friends even after they know each other so well." (Tommy - age 6 )

--"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and scared. I looked at all
the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the
only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore. That's love" (Cindy -age 8)

--"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone
                   all day." (Mary Ann - age 4 )

Above is the Mail I received regarding the meaning of LOVE

In my words the best example of Love is FAMILY AND ITS BONDING as it includes sacrifice, care, mutual understanding, devotion which are the different forms of love.

 

 

 

 

 

There was the time when to get settled in life meant to become an engineer , doctor and then get married to a decent girl and live happily ever after. But now the definition has changed completely and totally the new scenario has popped up with the alternate career options and life style to be chosen. The thinking pattern has been changed. We no more believe on the words of our elders and have got our own decisions to be placed ahead each time. With so much evolution going on every where, the things which were tabooed earlier for the teenagers have become obvious to be known. Now instead of thinking on the same line youngsters has discovered new ways. As we know the change is for good but can we apply the same line for every change. As the bad also comes with every good so here also it is in the line.

 

Yesterday I was watching the survey in which 70% of the youngsters nowadays do not want to get married, and even if they do want, then in the latter half of life.

I tried to get the reasons for that and continued my search. Here I could gather some points, tell me what you think about them.

 

1)      More Live-in-relationships coming into existence.

 

With every thing getting advanced and easily accessible, all the good phases of married life are also in the list. This has been made possible with the upcoming of live-in-relationships. I think all the young people who are into the relationship will agree with me, when I say that marriage with it brings more responsibilities, whereas the responsibilities get divided equally in Live-in-relationships. Also there is liberty which is so called freedom in such relationship. You have not got to explain the reasons of coming late, or let it be anything. More over both partners are free to end the relationship when they find it incompatible to be with each others whereas marriage doesn’t come with so much offers.

 

 

2)     Career Consciousness has been increased

 

“Slow and steady wins the race”. The proverb has become totally obsolete for now the present generation does not believe in being slow and steady. There is no time to look back and decision has got to be taken as soon as the options are served. Everybody wants to be at top which is good but at the same time we cannot deny that there is only one man’s place there at the top. So with this comes the competition, which brings aggression among the people and the frustration which gets assembled and cannot be poured in the working areas. Thus it finds its way back at home upon partners. Aggression is one thing that marriage doesn’t want at all. We have to be patient and calm there also as the other partner no matter male or female is also working and is filled with the same furious aggression. But we lack to be patient and calm so youngsters do not want to be overburdened with it and just wants to concentrate upon their career.

 

3)      Increasing Number of Betrayals

 

I know a girl who was seriously in love with a person and both of them wanted to get married. Finally every thing was going fine and even the girl got her parents agreed with the decision. But at this point of time the boy started misbehaving and because of the continuous ignoring attitude the relationship got over before marriage. After few months the girl’s parents got her engaged with the boy of their choice who was comparatively better looking and with a promising carrier. When every thing was almost finalized I got to know that she has got her ex boyfriend back into her life as he apologized her for the behavior and now instead of talking to her fiancé she is busy in planning the things to get settled down with her ex boyfriend. I felt terribly sorry for the guy as he didn’t have the slightest idea of what happening.

 

Now see the other face of the things. Few days back that friend of mine got to know that her fiancé is also going around with a divorce and discussed the things with him with the final decision of not carrying on anymore. She discussed the things with her boy friend and got firm with the decision of her to get married with him. To her surprise one day her boyfriend came to her saying that he cannot marry her as his parents has got his marriage fixed somewhere else. Now the girl is in depression and has lost her faith in marriage.

 

I do not know whose fault it was exactly as in this case I found everybody ditching each other. See in your locality, I am sure there will lots of cases where because of this reason bachelors and spinsters have lost their faith in marriages.

 

4)      Increasing Expectations

Marriage is another name of Love. According to me the highest state of love is marriage. We choose one person from all others with whom our whole life gets attached, so it is natural that the expectations will also rise. But never forget that the other person is also human and there are limitations attached to him. Moreover humans are not perfect.

 

Before marriage the things remains very rosy and different. We get pampered from fiancé and when a married life starts then we expect to get the treatment of the price and princess. But then it’s not possible each time and we have to accept the things as they come our way. This is the best way of being happy. If we keep on complaining on the silliest things then the list will never end up but the relation will definitely. We have to ignore our partner’s mistakes sometimes. If one partner can fit him in that frame then this love will make the other one also to be more understanding and patient.

 

 

My dear friends I am also a girl of this generation and have got married nearly five and a half months back. Believe me getting married is the best decision that both of us took in our life. Marriage is really a very beautiful bonding between two people. It makes life more worthwhile and gives a purpose to it. As far as the adjustments are concerned then they exist in every relationship. So please before coming to a decision give a thought that what impact its going to have in the latter stages of your life.

 

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It’s very easy to make people agreed to your points but the real challenge comes when you have to maintain their poll in your favor each time.

Lets try to unfold a secret of how anybody makes the success come to his way by making others working for him with the same vision. I know a person who when started a company had nothing to offer to his employees but just the hopes for the better future. There were no big dreams, no lucrative salary, no incentives, no yearly bonus, no tours, no perks to be offered but a dream of becoming big, known and established.

 

No this article is not about the success story of the person, may be I would like to narrate it after few years. But right now my concern is more about how he got others dance on his tune. Below are some Guiding Tips that I observed in him.

1) Be happy for the growth of your employees and subordinates equally as for your own.

 This is the first tag line which is very much necessary in order to be successful. Never ever think that the person who is working under you is the one who has got to be there always. Be a part of his success story as well. And genuinely participate in his efforts. Guide him with whatever knowledge you have. Bring life to their dreams as well while doing that for yours.

And never be afraid that he may overpower you. Even if he does that one day, always be the one who admire him for that even. This may not double up your turnovers but if you can genuinely cultivate the thought then you will prove to be a winner already and there is no competition between him and you. You will be a winner in the struggle of being a better person and there by contributing something spiritual to your growth. This spiritual growth is most important one among all as this is the only one which goes with us after death.

2) Let the employees be the boss of himself.

Let yourself be nowhere in the scene of making the rules of do's and don’ts. Just make a format for the employees and let them make the rest of the frame of the picture. Its not that they will get punctual for every work schedule or never come late to the office, but then you never need to ask them the reason for that. The members will themselves update you with the things and also they will make sure to avoid such excuses next time. This is going to save lot of your energy and time which can be put in increasing the productivity.

 3)   Be their friend instead of their Boss.

 

The above point which is heard very often but is practiced the least is one of the most important one. 

Let me give you an example. My immediate senior in my last company was a very high headed man. Very arrogant and always maintained a distance between him and his team members. He kept an eye on us even in the canteen. He called up the meetings every week just to scold us for our performances. Slowly we started hating him and besides the terror that he tried to create in us we went totally out of the track. We deliberately started hampering the work which hampered our growth also, but who cares. We were happy that at least we are doing some harm to the company which we wrongly assumes as a harm to our manager.

Then one day without a prior notice The CEO of the company came to the floor. I was suffering terribly with cold and was coughing like anything. Suddenly I realized a hand on my head and a voice could be heard "are you alright Manishi? Better take a leave." To my surprise he was the CEO of the company and I was shocked that he called me with my name when there are at least 1000 of employees in the company. That day I realized that by not working properly I am not harming my manager but my CEO who is one of the friendliest people in the company.

 

4)    Have Faith in your employee.

 

Remember a person alone can never become successful. It’s the whole team that puts their sweat to make the success shine for him. Once you put a seed of friendship in the organization then nurture the plant with faith. Trust on the decision of your employees as now your company is not yours alone. It belongs equally to your employees who as desperately want to make the company as successful as you want.

 

5) You and the Company are two different entities.

 

CEO's comes and goes, what remains is the company. So do not pride for your endeavor as when seen as a whole then you added the efforts for 25-30 years only. Do not get emotionally too attached to the company or any of the possessions of yours as like others you will also have to leave all this forever.

 

In last I would like to say that do not wrap the success mantra superficially in order to be successful but make them a part of you. As the pretendence will be gone with the time and you will end all your energy in make ups.

Rather than being happy on our achievement we are unhappy on others achievement.

In a second we rid ourself from the pleasure of being happy wondering why the other person is so happy.

 

I want to ask why our happiness is so cheap that it can be easily thrown away so easily on others negative remarks? Why is a matter of luck instead of being the matter of choice? Because our happiness is not totally ours, it is dependent on others.

 

A poor man is unhappy because the rich man has lots of things to eat; where as the rich man finds the poor one to be much fortunate as he can at least eat anything that he wants. But the rich cannot touch anything because of diabetes. Poor person has no bread to eat but a rich one can not eat anything except bread.

 

So my dear friend be a master of your own happiness. You alone decide whether to be happy or sad in life. Your happiness can not be so small and trifle that it becomes a matter of others mercy. Be happy for yourself, for your efforts and potentials. Do not let yourself down and leave the efforts on the slightest of the criticism of others. Maintain a positive vibe in you and regularly try to improve your skills. No matter how long will take but every time you will reach a step near to perfection.

 

Have you ever found people getting entertained in listening the miseries of others? No, nobody wants to waste a time over listening your misfortunes but instead if you have something inspirational to teach them they will welcome you. A happy man is always a source of inspiration for others.

 

But also check out your definition of being happy. If you find it to be constructive then you are heading on the right path but if you feel happy on the cost of others happiness then at the end you are going to be the most unhappy person. So check it out. Even after reading this article, you do not find anything worthwhile to be happy in your life then practice the below.

 

Every morning after getting up and every night before going to sleep say firmly to yourself "I am happy no matter what comes in my way” and believe me that in a very short span of time miracles will happen with you. You will find new ways opening at your path and each of them will lead to the doors of happiness.

 

But make sure not to have double thoughts or any kind of doubts while you make your mind believe that. So my dear friends try it out and share the experiences. Even if you get the slightest smile on your face because of this then I will be the happiest person for you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Rather than being happy on our achievement we are unhappy on others achievement.

It takes just a second to forget all the efforts that we undergone through to achieve our goals and losses all our enthusiasm on finding that the other person is also happy has also achieved something else.

 

I want to ask why our happiness is so cheap that it can be easily thrown away so easily on others negative remarks? Why is a matter of luck instead of being the matter of choice? Because our happiness is not totally ours, it is dependent on others.

 

A poor man is unhappy because the rich man has lots of things to eat; where as the rich man finds the poor one to be much fortunate as he cannot touch anything because of diabetes and other life taking diseases. Poor person has no bread to eat but a rich one can not eat anything except bread to eat. Rich person thinks that “Oh! Here I am in the five star hotel. Why to eat bread.”

 

 

Similarly a man with simple education and just one degree thinks that “I do mot have much knowledge and so can’t stand with an intellectual people”. Whereas a scholar with many degrees thinks that, “How fortunate I am because I am full of doubts.”

 

So my dear friend be a master of your own happiness. You alone decide whether to be happy or sad in life. Your happiness can not be so small and trifle that it becomes a matter of others mercy. Be happy for yourself, for your efforts and potentials. Do not let yourself down and leave the efforts on the slightest of the criticism of others. Maintain a positive vibe in you and regularly try to improve your skills. No matter how long will take but every time you will reach a step near to perfection.

 

Have you ever found people getting entertained in listening the miseries of others? No, nobody wants to waste a time over listening your misfortunes but instead if you have something inspirational to teach them they will welcome you. A happy man is always a source of inspiration for others.

 

But also check out your definition of being happy. If you find it to be constructive then you are heading on the right path but if you feel happy on the cost of others happiness then at the end you are going to be the most unhappy person. So check it out. Even after reading this article, you do not find anything worthwhile to be happy in your life then practice the below.

 

Every morning after getting up and every night before going to sleep say firmly to yourself”” I am happy no matter what comes in my way” and believe me that in a very short span of time miracles will happen with you. You will find new ways opening at your path and each of them will lead to the doors of happiness.

 

But make sure not to have double thoughts or any kind of doubts while you make your mind believe that. So my dear friends try it out and share the experiences. Even if you get the slightest smile on your face because of this then I will be the happiest person for you.